Your message. Your situation. Your calm reply.

How it works

1. Paste your draft. The message you're about to send — a text, an email, anything.
2. See how it lands. An honest read on tone, what could escalate, and the facts worth keeping.
3. Send the calm version. Choose Gentle, Direct, or Firm but Neutral — and send with your head up.

• Stay calm when it matters. See how your words land before they're sent — and rewrite them in a tone that keeps you the reasonable one.
• Keep the record straight. Saved reviews and a communication log that show you were consistent, factual, and focused on the kids.
• Protect what matters. Escalation flags catch the loaded words and threats before they become a problem — for your position, and for your kids.
• Sleep at night. Stop re-writing your reply at 11pm. Get the calm version in seconds.

Made for your situation.

See the message before you send it.

Paste your draft and get, in seconds:

• • How it may be received — the honest read on tone and what it triggers.
• • Conflict & escalation risks — the words and moves that could make things worse.
• • Watch out for — the exact phrases that land as emotional, accusatory, or vague.
• • Facts worth preserving — the concrete details you should keep no matter what.
• • Three rewrites — Gentle, Direct, and Firm but Neutral. Brief, calm, and child-focused.

Free. No account. Your draft stays private.